This story is from April 23, 2011

Figure out why you broke up with him

Candy floss songs bring tears in your eyes on two occasions- when you are just in love or when you are just out of it.
Figure out why you broke up with him
Candy floss songs bring tears in your eyes on two occasions- when you are just in love or when you are just out of it.
But sometimes these songs seem to make no sense at all. Especially when you just don’t seem to understand why you had a breakup.
The first spark
Hrishabh and Sania were childhood friends. They were the best of buddies, sharing their joys, sorrows, crushes everything.
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All was going well when one day Hrishabh proposed Sania. Taken aback, Sania's world melted like a block of ice on flame. The melting started with the warmth of love and unfortunately ended with the fire of a breakup.
Long distance
Sania got a call from her parents in London. This depressed Hrishabh . Instead of living the moment, he started worrying about the future. The thought kept worrying him that how he would handle their separation. So sure were they that they wanted to maintain their relationship that they started dating online. Regularly. Hrishabh grew more possessive about Sania and started interfering in her life.
The war of the hearts

A long distance usually leaves you with no clue of what the other person is doing. All you can do is to blindly trust or guess. Where there is a guess, there are fights. The same happened with Hrishabh and Sania. Sania complained about Harsh being over possessive and not giving her enough space and Hrishabh complained about Sania being over sensitive.
The end
They couldn't bear the pressure of the distance. Sania wanted some space in her life and finally all she had was space. She could never explain what she wanted and he could never understand how much she wanted.
Going separate ways once in a while gives you a chance to enhance the relationship. But it can only happen when there’s perfect dose of it. Long distance works only if the partners are caring, understanding and trust each other. Otherwise, all you'll end up with are wet pillows, candied songs and a broken heart.
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About the Author
Misha Paul

Misha Paul is a copy editor-cum-correspondent at Pune Times. Misha covers fashion and lifestyle, has a lively personality and a passion for reading, and loves to explore fresh leads for fascinating stories.

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